The Ins and Outs of Exs

Who says you can't be friends with your ex's?
I know I wrote a post contemplating it once.
Currently I'm friends with 3 of mine. I text with one of them frequently. I text and occasionally talk on facebook with another one. The third is a little more complicated, but it's going to get figured out.
Right now I know I want to be friends with the Photographer.
I had a talk with the Psychology Grad last night (face to face). I suggested taking it back and going slowly. I don't know if it will work. He doesn't know if it will work. He wants to try....
But I'm not sure if I want to...Surprise!
He lost quite a bit of my trust and respect in the way that he did it.

I'm going to do the Miranda thing and write down the pros and cons...when I get time.
Right now I'm off to work.
Workin' it out, one problem at a time.

But for the first time since Saturday morning, I really feel like smiling and being happy.
Shit happens.
In the end we have to make ourselves happy.
We're human. We hurt each other even though we don't always mean to.
It takes a small person to hold a grudge.
It takes a big person to forgive.
So I'm going to be as happy on my way to work as I was 2 or 3 weeks ago
...and I don't need a boyfriend to feel it!