I was talking with a friend recently (as in a couple minutes ago) about wanting to know a guy she likes to tell her he likes her before she . So I thought it would be a good topic to cover tonight. It can be quite confusing.
This is certainly a topic I've had personal experience and I can honestly say I've heard all of my girl friends say the same thing. Once upon a time guys were expected to make the first move. Once upon a time women couldn't vote and had to take care of the children. Things change. So has this. Sometimes I wonder if it hasn't gone the other way. So many guys are not forthcoming and there isn't just one reason for that. It's not all the same for each one either.
Believe me, there have been so many times when I just wanted to shake a guy and yell "say it already!" But I refrained each time...Let's be honest sometimes it's needed, but being to honest too soon could also scare the guy off. There's a delicate balance.
(I'm gonna keep this short since I'm multitasking right now and my brain is a little fuzzy due to lack of sleep)
At this point in our lives, it should take time to get to the point of entering a relationship. We're not in middle school. It's not his friend told her friend that he liked her and her friend told his friend that she likes him so he asked her to "go out" and suddenly they're in a "relationship." There a process of getting to know one another. A problem I have is that I tend to figure the other person out way before they figure me out.
Patience is key and waiting can be the hardest thing to do, but sometimes it's necessary. I have to point out that there are times when a guy is not worth the wait. I guess every one has to figure that out for themselves, but it's nice to get advice sometimes. I wouldn't claim to know it all. Not even close. I know what I know and so far it's done me pretty well.
Wow I managed to finish this blog without really bringing my own situation into it. Yay!
On a separate note, I voted today! Yay! I really hope No on 1 passes.
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