"They Are All The Same"

If I ever hear one of my friends saying that about guys or girls, I will smack you over the head. It's not true.

There are many girls who go around thinking all guys are the same. They only want sex. That's a little simplified don't you think? Sure it's true for some guys. It's also true for some girls. I'm glad the phrase 'man whore' is becoming more popular. It's not just the girls who are sluts.

There are many of us that aren't though. For example, there are things (emotionally and physically) that I won't do with/for a guy who I'm not in a relationship with.

However, I'm getting away from my point. I had a friend, who I introduced to hockey awhile back and who became my man subject confidante. That was really the extent of our friendship now that I think about it. The problem was that she was jealous and therefore bitchy. She thought I was prettier and she envied my confidence. Maybe I am more attractive. She's not bad looking though. What makes her ugly is her jealousy and need to belittle others to make herself feel better. It doesn't seem to work well for her though. What a surprise. Most recently, I believe she has bought the tickets for the seats next to me through the holidays. Does this seem a little far fetched? I think not. When you're that jealous and that insecure, you also tend to be that irrational.
My reasoning behind this conclusion? For the past 3 games no one has sat next to me in that row. However, at the far end of the section are 3 of her friends. One constantly goes over to her section to talk (all the way across the arena...really?). No one would buy those seats and never come except someone irrational with a lot of money. I think that points to her? Along with the fact that she wants to make me miserable and alone in my section.
I'm not sorry that she only goes with her parents and one friend occasionally. I'm not sorry she only has one friend. That's completely her fault. We were all there for her until she secluded herself and blamed her problems on us (us being my best friends from 'flete). I felt bad, so I went along for awhile.
I'm completely done now though. If I ever find proof that she did that, I will find her outside after a game and punch her in the face.

So yes, there are girls like that. The insanely jealous and insecure type who become bitches to cover it up. But we aren't all like that. In fact, most of us are pretty rational most of the time. That doesn't mean you (men) will always understand why we do what we do and it doesn't mean we will always understand why you do things that you do, but we aren't monsters. Sometimes you just have to ask for an explanation.

Sorry about the rant. I felt the need to put it somewhere public.